ITS HARD BUT IT GETS BETTER KEEP PUSHING

How is it that you can love someone with all your heart, soul and mind even when you know they do not like any bit about you. It Baffles me to know that the one you love doesn’t love you back as much as you do them.

Why is it that someone would neglect someone who Genuinely loves them, treats them like the queen and king that they are, cares for them like they ought to be cared for, for a person who doesn’t even give them the attention they are supposed to be given, a person who treats them like they are trash, a person who doesn’t give little shit whether they are okay or not I bet they would even care if you are breathing or not, a person who constantly disrespects them.

Funny how they all know that they aren’t needed in that persons life, they are just not enough for that person, they can’t match up to the standards of that person, but still choose to stay. Why ? Why would you stay in a place where you aren’t wanted, a place where one constantly makes you feel like your not enough, a place where a person makes you doubt your worth countless times, a place where you have to be someone else to please that person, fit into different skin and character that is not yours just to please their needs, why their needs? Why not your needs ? It is hard to move on but sweet heart you have to go. Move move darling it’s time to move

I know sometimes you miss them, you want to text them and tell them how you are doing, basically update them about how your doing, some of you have texted the person already others you have typed and deleted the messages that you were meant to send to that person, you want to call them and talk for hours and hours with this person but darling let me ask you one question “are they doing the same for you ? Are they checking up on you? Are they calling in to see how you are doing ? Then if they aren’t doing that, then why are you doing that?

It’s hard to run a relationship that is one sided it breaks you as a person, breaks your self esteem, makes you doubt yourself and your worth and this is not good for you mentally, physically, emotionally, and sometimes economically. Darling do not loose yourself trying to find something that doesn’t want to be found or trying to mend a relationship which isn’t worth it.

It’s not a good place to be at not knowing where you belong in someone’s life, that’s one, but the greatest relief is after you have known, how fast can you reorganize yourself to make sure your where your supposed to be? One of the hardest things to do is to move on from a place where you realise you aren’t wanted because all these questions come rushing in on what you did, it’s really unfair basically complains but complains are not going to fix the problem, they are just giving you a room for self pity and being in a place of being hurt but all these won’t help. It’s hard very hard but ask yourself one thing “what’s lessons have I learnt through this entire period ?”. I think they would help you move forward

The depression, the hardest times and the crying come in but one thing is for sure , healing is taking place because of the acceptance that you have given yourself. Keep moving one keep fighting to see that in as much as we want to please the ones we love , our happiness come first , “self love” is so crucial .

So to whoever is out there and your hurting, your struggling to let go, darling ,king, queen, princess, prince it hurts but at the end it gets better. There is always light at the end of the tunnel.